Once Upon a time........

I still cant  believe my friend's loss. I know God let it happen for a reason...but this has got me thinking and reflecting about life.

Once upon a time when people value friendship, relationship and marriage. Our generation has turned to one where friendships are betrayed without remorse, broken relationships have become very common and the most painful of all is opting for divorce when marriages face difficulties.

And I ask myself what has gone wrong? why don't we value life, friendship, love, relationship and marriage??

These days we have become so busy with the pursuit of achievements"happiness'' that we forget the most important achievement that money cannot get us which is family and friends.

Husbands and Fathers are so busy trying to make their wives and children comfortable, that they do not spend time with their spouse and children.

Wives and mothers are busy building a career for themselves as well as building the home that they do not spend time with their husbands and children.

We need to start making conscious efforts in paying attention to the most important people in our lives;

• Spend time with your family and cherish every moment together. 
• Do not waste time arguing,quarreling and fighting.  
• LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.

Live your lives like its your last and enjoy every moment you have on earth. Be good to your spouse,partner, family, friends and everyone around you.


God Bless ya'all

xoxo

M.E

Life is too Short!!!

Happy New year my lovelies,

My prayers go out to my friend who lost her husband and son in a car accident.May God bring her out of coma alive and may He grant her the strength to bare this great loss.

Ladies and gentlemen..life is short..

We need to be grateful to God for the Life we have, we need to appreciate God for our spouse and stop complaining about what we feel our spouse is lacking.

I am not perfect and I do not expect anyone to be perfect but we need to stop all unnecessary fights and quarrels. Some couples live in the same house but yet they do not relate with each other. Stop lying to your spouse. stop cheating on your spouse. Nobody forced you to the alter to take those vows; therefore stick with your vows.

If you and your spouse have got a gap you better start bridging that gap because you never know how long you have to spend together. Do you want to look back at the times you spent together and regret how you hurt your spouse?

The bible says ''wives be submissive to your husband"..I know it is not easy but we have to try to put in an extra effort. Let's not always look at divorce as a way out of problems in marriage. We have to stick in there and fix things.. remember a virtuous woman builds her home. May God grant us the grace.

Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church(God commands us to do this). The bible did not say lie to your wife, the bible did not say tell your wife you are working late when you are out there sleeping with some other girl. Love your wife just as Christ loves the church means you should be ready to die for your wife. You should love her unconditionally even if she is unable to lose the baby weight.

Treat each other with LOVE, RESPECT each other, Be ready to DEFEND each other at all times, COMMUNICATE with your spouse and be TOLERANT.

Enough said for now... Life is too short. Make your relationship and your marriage work.

R.I.P Guehi Okao and Son * sobs

God Bless

xoxo

M.E