Looking for something different........

HI Guys,

I have been too busy to blog; hey I am back now so lets start today's discussion.

So Last week Ik of Rhythm FM carried out a research and discovered that 60% of men are cheating and 54.5% of women are cheating and when asked why, most of the answers where "I wanted something different". Well here are my thoughts on this....

It is very normal when we sometimes do not feel the spark in the relationship anymore, so instead of looking for  "something different" why not rekindle the spark..

We should not see our spouse as unapproachable or we should not feel uncomfortable when we are with our spouse. If you did not enjoy the last round of love making then discuss it with your spouse. If you did not enjoy the way your spouse kissed you, why not talk about it. Teach your spouse the way you like to have it.

If u are a freaky Fred who likes naughty Nancy but got married to innocent Inny; then teach innocent Inny how to be naughty Nancy instead of going out looking for naughty Nancy and same goes for the ladies.

Ladies and Gentlemen try to learn new things everyday, try doing different new things with your spouse, the internet is there to teach you. Do not be afraid to be spontaneous and try new positions. Marriage is for eternity, make it fun, do not keep doing the same things everyday.

How can a couple be together in the house for 3 days straight without making love; this should be regarded as SIN; yea SIN * rolling my eyes*. I am sick and tired of hearing stories of broken marriages just because we let the Love go soar...

Here's my conclusion : instead of looking for something different outside your home, why not create something different in your home. Be open to each other , be ready to teach each other and be ready to learn.

Love and Marriage is a beautiful thing; may God grant us the grace to keep our relationships beautiful.........

Let me know what your thought are on thus guys!!!!

xoxo

M.E

Gender Importance

Hi Guys,

Today's topic was birth out of an argument we had in the office yesterday. The Men say it is not easy to be a Man and it is easy to be a woman. Well here is my view on this.

A relationship can only exist where the 2 individuals agree to starting the relationship as such both the man and the woman should be ready to learn and  teach each other with LOVE.

It is not easy to be a Man and it is also not easy to be a woman. We all need to identify the importance of our spouse and not feel like we should be getting all the credits for putting in so much work to the success of our relationship.

As a man, you need to understand that a woman also  has a lot going through her mind, you should NEVER imagine that she has nothing to worry about. She actually has a lot to worry about like being the best at work, the best mum, the best wife, sister, lover, girlfriend and a lot more. Most times the woman holds back a lot of emotions and would not want to disturb your already busy mind.

As a woman, you also need to understand a Man's struggle to make his family comfortable. Despite how busy we think our spouse is, we need to communicate with him, let him tell you how his day went, gist you about his daily hustle; then you also tell him how you spent your day and your daily challenges and end by letting him know that you understand his everyday struggle and seal it with prayer for him and a kiss*wink*

So do you all agree that It is nt easy to be a Man and it is also not easy to be a Woman. Let me know if you feel one is easier than the other.

Looking forward to reading your comments

xoxo

M.E

Welcome!!!!

Hi Guys,

Welcome to my blog. This blog is going to be about balancing your work, career and relationships.

We are going to be learning a lot from each other so we make our homes a better place.

Lets all take note that there is no caved in stone rule on love, what works for a family may not work for your family so please NEVER compare your family, spouse, children with any other.

I look forward to reading your comments and I am very excited to start this wonderful journey with you all.


Enjoy your day and stay blessed.

xoxo

M.E