Hi Guys,
Today's topic was birth out of an argument we had in the office yesterday. The Men say it is not easy to be a Man and it is easy to be a woman. Well here is my view on this.
A relationship can only exist where the 2 individuals agree to starting
the relationship as such both the man and the woman should be ready to
learn and teach each other with LOVE.
It is not easy to be a Man and it is also not easy to be a woman. We all need to identify the importance of our spouse and not feel like we should be getting all the credits for putting in so much work to the success of our relationship.
As a man, you need to understand that a woman also has a lot going through her mind, you should NEVER imagine that she has nothing to worry about. She actually has a lot to worry about like being the best at work, the best mum, the best wife, sister, lover, girlfriend and a lot more. Most times the woman holds back a lot of emotions and would not want to disturb your already busy mind.
As a woman, you also need to understand a Man's struggle to make his family comfortable. Despite how busy we think our spouse is, we need to communicate with him, let him tell you how his day went, gist you about his daily hustle; then you also tell him how you spent your day and your daily challenges and end by letting him know that you understand his everyday struggle and seal it with prayer for him and a kiss*wink*
So do you all agree that It is nt easy to be a Man and it is also not easy to be a Woman. Let me know if you feel one is easier than the other.
Looking forward to reading your comments
xoxo
M.E
Well I really don't think its easier to be either gender because both genders have an almost similar responsibility in a relationship.....but in the present world a'Man' is seen as the figure head and so automatically he feels the whole burden of responsibilities in a relationship is on him, and in my opinion that's a wrong persective which fits the morden status quo. An in my opinion both Genders in a relationship should be able to share the burdens(if any) as well as the responsibilites. And so in my opinion its not easy to be a 'Man' as well as a 'Woman'. David.
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