HI Guys,
I have been too busy to blog; hey I am back now so lets start today's discussion.
So Last week Ik of Rhythm FM carried out a research and discovered that 60% of men are cheating and 54.5% of women are cheating and when asked why, most of the answers where "I wanted something different". Well here are my thoughts on this....
It is very normal when we sometimes do not feel the spark in the relationship anymore, so instead of looking for "something different" why not rekindle the spark..
We should not see our spouse as unapproachable or we should not feel uncomfortable when we are with our spouse. If you did not enjoy the last round of love making then discuss it with your spouse. If you did not enjoy the way your spouse kissed you, why not talk about it. Teach your spouse the way you like to have it.
If u are a freaky Fred who likes naughty Nancy but got married to innocent Inny; then teach innocent Inny how to be naughty Nancy instead of going out looking for naughty Nancy and same goes for the ladies.
Ladies and Gentlemen try to learn new things everyday, try doing different new things with your spouse, the internet is there to teach you. Do not be afraid to be spontaneous and try new positions. Marriage is for eternity, make it fun, do not keep doing the same things everyday.
How can a couple be together in the house for 3 days straight without making love; this should be regarded as SIN; yea SIN * rolling my eyes*. I am sick and tired of hearing stories of broken marriages just because we let the Love go soar...
Here's my conclusion : instead of looking for something different outside your home, why not create something different in your home. Be open to each other , be ready to teach each other and be ready to learn.
Love and Marriage is a beautiful thing; may God grant us the grace to keep our relationships beautiful.........
Let me know what your thought are on thus guys!!!!
xoxo
M.E
Totally agree with your thoughts.And oh about freaky Fred and naughty Nancy that was perfect.Nice one.
ReplyDeleteWe would also have to entertain the idea that, the solution to keeping the spark alive spans further than sex. Couples need to keep their open to the fact that they can still achieve intimacy with their clothes on....lol
ReplyDeleteI heard a very interesting but true angle on the reason(s) behind cheating, You (the cheater) might think it because you want something new, but the real reason is more compex than that you are "not sure of what you want, you are greedy,spoilt or you are simply jus a nympho.." #simple
Ok first of all i would like to say I am not married and so I might not understand how Love making in a marriage can be, and so my comment are based on general knowledge; you can call it the regular sex education if you want. Now with that said, lets get this started. For starters this is actually a good read and pretty much educative. so now that we have cleared that out,I'll like to go straight to my point. I think its normal for couples especially young couples to loose their 'flame' sexually, but don't get me wrong i do not support the idea of'Fred going out looking for naughty Nancy' instead of trying to fit or resolve the issues with his wife. Okay look at it this way, if you had a car that you love so much(considering that being the reason you bought it in the first place), and suddenly after using and enjoying it for a while it has a fault, what do you do?........ exactly! you fix it and try to make it even better than it was at the time you bought it(if that's possible)by adding some interesting modifications to it so you can enjoy driving it again. Bottom line is..... if you think you are losing the 'sexual flame' in your marriage, try something new, something different and interesting as long as it's not something creepy.... if you know what i mean. And so in conclusion its advisable for couples to try new things on a daily basis so their love life last for as long as possible.
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