Today I want to share my thoughts on Akon's interview with TMZ. He was asked about the pressures of being in a monogamous relationship; he said a lot of things but the statement that struck me was
"Men are put on this earth to breed and the reason why God put multiple women on this earth is for that; but women aren’t built to breed like that or mate with more than one partner. Women aren’t built that way, men are".
Akon got it all wrong and a lot of people have this misconception. No man or woman was built to cheat or have multiple partners. We were built in the image of God and after His likeness; although you are born again but your flesh is not born again. It takes the grace of God to discipline your flesh and your mindset. It is very wrong to think "ALL MEN CHEAT"because not all men cheat and not all women are faithful either.
There is no point trying to generalize and make yourself believe this misconception because it only makes it ok for some Men to think "well that's how I was built, it is a man's world so deal with it". No No No No Mister... you can be different, you can discipline yourself through the Grace of God to be satisfied and committed to that 1 spouse you have.
I know it is not easy and we all get distracted and tempted at some point. I mean who would not get tired of eating rice every single day. So Instead of going outside to look for beans, why not try making your rice with beans or adding something different to the way you cook and eat your rice.#hope you understand this analogy.
Please share your thoughts....
Thanks
M.E
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